5 Little Known Facts About the Kennedy Family Graves at Arlington National Cemetery

When President John F. Kennedy’s burial was televised on November 25, 1963, it was the first time Americans from coast to coast could participate in the funeral of a leader without being physically present. And by selecting the 624-acre site in the nation’s capital, rather than a plot in the family’s home state of Massachusetts, Jackie Kennedy established a site for the Kennedy family graves that made Arlington National Cemetery a destination that Americans visit when they tour the nation’s capital.

While there is no fee to visit and pay your respects to the Kennedys buried at Arlington National Cemetery, I did pay full price to ride the shuttle bus through the cemetery. But you can count on me to always share my honest opinions, regardless of who foots the bill.

Buried in late November 1963, President Kennedy was the first member of the family interred in the Kennedy family plot in Arlington National Cemetery. As tragedy struck again a few years later, JFK’s little brother was assassinated and interred nearby. You may know that JFK is buried next to his wife, Jackie, with an eternal flame encircled with Cape Cod granite burning above their gravestones, but are you aware of these five little-known facts about the Kennedy family graves at Arlington National Cemetery? 

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1. Why JFK Was Buried at Arlington National Cemetery

 The Kennedy family graves at Arlington National Cemetery were established with JFK's burial
President John F. Kennedy’s burial at Arlington National Cemetery established the plot for the Kennedy family graves.

After President John F. Kennedy’s shocking assassination in November 1963, First Lady Jackie Kennedy wanted his gravesite to be as accessible as possible, saying, “He belongs to the people.” As preparations were made, many people believed that JFK would be interred in Massachusetts where he was born and raised. After all, at that time, only two presidents were buried outside of their native states and in the nation’s capital. 

While visiting Arlington National Cemetery on Veterans Day, just a few weeks before his death, JFK stood on the grounds of the Arlington House high on a hill above the national cemetery. As he took in the sweeping views of the rolling green hills and fall foliage, his eyes continued across the Potomac River to the Lincoln Memorial and Washington Monument. He wistfully said that the views were so spectacular that he “could stay here forever.”

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And so, in consultation with JFK’s younger brother, Bobby, and Secretary of Defense Robert S. McNamara, Jackie selected a plot just below Arlington House that established the site of the Kennedy family graves and offered her late husband the forever view he requested.

2. John F. Kennedy is NOT the Only President Buried at Arlington

President Taft is buried at Arlington Cemetery in DC.
President Taft was the first US President buried at Arlington National Cemetery. Photo by Library of Congress.

Approximately three million people visit Arlington National Cemetery each year, and JFK’s grave is one of the most visited within the 624-acre site. But JFK is not the only US president buried at Arlington. 

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William Howard Taft (AKA POTUS #27) was laid to rest at Arlington National Cemetery in March 1930 after passing away at his home. He was the first president and the first chief justice buried at Arlington National Cemetery, and he remains the only American in history to serve as both president and chief justice.

3. Why JFK’s Grave Has an Eternal Flame

An eternal flame burns at the top of JFK's headstone in the Kennedy family plot at Arlington National Cemetery.
An eternal flame burns at the top of JFK’s headstone in the Kennedy family plot at Arlington National Cemetery.

Around the world, an eternal flame is a symbol of everlasting life. An eternal flame incorporated into a war memorial symbolizes a nation’s gratitude and desire to forever remember the sacrifices of those being honored. As a veteran of World War II, Purple Heart recipient (the only president to earn the medal), and president assassinated in office, it’s easy to understand why Jackie wanted President Kennedy honored with an eternal flame. For it was at her request that it quietly flickers above his headstone in the Kennedy family plot.

4. JFK is Buried with Several Family Members at Arlington National Cemetery

JFK is buried with several family members at Arlington National Cemetery
President Kennedy is buried with several family members at Arlington National Cemetery including his brothers, his wife, and a son and daughter who died as infants.

First Lady Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis is buried next to JFK at Arlington National Cemetery. Resting on either side of Jack and Jackie are two of their four children who died as infants. Arabella was stillborn in August 1956, and Patrick lived only a few days, dying just a few months before his father in 1963.

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In addition to JFK’s nuclear family, two of his brothers are buried nearby. Assassinated after winning the California Democratic primary in 1968, Bobby Kennedy is buried a few steps away from Jack under a plain white cross and a simple marker. And his youngest brother, Ted, who passed away in 2009 at the age of 77 after nearly 47 years as a US senator from Massachusetts, is also buried nearby. 

JFK’s oldest brother, Joe, was killed in World War II when his plane exploded over the English Channel. Although he is buried at the Cambridge American Cemetery in Cambridgeshire, England, Joe is still honored with a white cross in the Kennedy family plot at Arlington. 

5. The Gravesite You Visit at Arlington Today is Not JFK’s Original Gravesite

Honor guard prepares to fold the American flag for presentation to Jackie Kennedy
Honor Guard prepares to fold the American flag covering President John F. Kennedy’s casket and present it to his widow, Jackie Kennedy. Photograph by Abbie Rowe, National Park Service, in the John F. Kennedy Presidential Library and Museum, Boston.

While grieving the sudden loss of her husband and tending to her two small children, First Lady Jackie Kennedy played an active role in her husband’s funeral arrangements. She requested an eternal flame for JFK’s grave, which was fueled by copper tubing from a propane tank a football field’s length away from the gravesite.

President Kennedy was laid to rest in Arlington National Cemetery on November 25, 1963, as dignitaries from around the world paid their respects and millions of viewers watched by television. Toward the end of the graveside service, Jackie lit the eternal flame.

In the three years that followed, more than 16 million visitors stopped at JFK’s gravesite. Cemetery officials wanted to better accommodate the crowds and implement a safer, more permanent eternal flame. After two years of construction, officials exhumed JFK’s casket in March 1967 and moved his body to its current location just a short distance away. 

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In a private ceremony attended by just a few people, including Jackie, JFK’s two surviving brothers, and President Lyndon Baines Johnson, the 35th president was interred in his present location. At the same time, the couple’s two infant children, Arabella and Patrick, were moved from Massachusetts to their current resting place next to their father.

The eternal flame lit during JFK’s burial in November 1963 was replaced with a permanent natural gas line. It features a continuous electronic spark that reignites the flame in case it is extinguished by rain or wind. 

Helpful Tips and Important Rules for Visiting Arlington National Cemetery

  • To take the DC Metro to Arlington National Cemetery, use the blue line.
  • Purchase tickets for the Arlington National Cemetery tram to better navigate the expansive cemetery and learn more about its history and the people interred there.
  • Plan on a lot of walking, often on hilly terrain, even with the guided tram tour.
  • Visitors of all ages should behave with respect for the men and women buried at Arlington National Cemetery. Do not run through the cemetery, climb on tombstones, litter, or raise your voice. And under no circumstances should the grounds be used for recreational activities like picnics or tossing a Frisbee.
  • An average of 25 burials a day are held at Arlington National Cemetery. If you encounter a funeral service or wreath-laying ceremony during your visit, be especially mindful of the somber occasion and the grieving families and friends.
  • Despite the fact that you will likely witness people doing it, do not throw coins at the graves. This is especially true of the Kennedy family members buried at Arlington National Cemetery where visitors tend to engage in this inappropriate behavior the most.
  • It is illegal to damage, alter, or remove anything from Arlington National Cemetery. This law also protects the trees and plants, so do not attempt to take a coin, leaf, flower, or even a blade of grass as a souvenir.
  • Dogs, cats, and other pets are prohibited. Only service animals and working military dogs are allowed at Arlington National Cemetery.
  • Download a map of Arlington National Cemetery before you visit.

To Visit JFK’s Grave in Arlington National Cemetery

Arlington Cemetery Address:  The address for the Arlington National Cemetery is simply Arlington National Cemetery, Arlington, Virginia. Most search engines and map applications can find the cemetery using that information. The cemetery is located just across the Potomac River from Washington, DC, and can be reached using the DC Metro via the blue line.

Arlington National Cemetery Hours:  The cemetery is open daily from 8:00 am to 7:00 pm April through September and 8:00 am to 5:00 pm October through March.

Arlington Cemetery Fees:  There is no admission fee to visit Arlington National Cemetery. However, tickets are required for the tram that winds through the cemetery. Discounted tickets are offered to active-duty military, veterans, seniors, and children, and they can be purchased just inside the Arlington National Cemetery entrance.

For the latest information, including special exhibits and events, visit the Arlington National Cemetery website.

Have You Visited JFK’s Grave and Eternal Flame in Arlington National Cemetery?

What was your experience like? Any additional tips or advice to pass along to others who are planning a visit to Arlington? Share your thoughts in the comments section below.


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9 thoughts on “5 Little Known Facts About the Kennedy Family Graves at Arlington National Cemetery”

  1. Question:
    Does anyone know if there is definitive reason for why the ‘Eternal Flame circular flagstone’ has a very obvious crack down its center? My personal guess is that it symbolizes the crack of tragedy that befell the nation on 22 November 1963 when our young President was tragically assassinated and this crack in the nation’s should has never healed, just as per the assassination of President Abraham Lincoln! We miss your President Kennedy and what this nation could have been if you had lived. RIP JFK!

  2. I believe that Jackie Kennedy Onassis got the idea of the ‘eternal flame’ from a French War memorial during one of her numerous visits to France and insisted that a similar tribute was fitting for her husband JFK.

  3. I visited the original Kennedy grave in April 1964! While on my honeymoon. It was very moving and simple with the little white picket fence surrounding it. I think I prefer that to the newer monument that I’ve only seen in pictures.

  4. I have visited Arlington national cemetery twice and still learned something new from this post! I think this is such a beautiful place and I’m glad you shared information about it.

  5. whereivebeentravel

    So much interesting information here! I’ve never visited Arlington Cemetery but am always moved when driving past. Thanks for these tips, they will be super helpful when I make it to Arlington!

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